I can’t count the number of times I’ve heard friends say the love and romance has gone out of their relationship or marriage. My question for them is what are you doing to keep the relationship interesting? You see, the fire in a relationship isn’t going to keep burning if you don’t provide fuel for it. So, if your relationship seems to have been getting a little cold lately,
here are 5 romantic things you can do to make her happy:
Nothing can rival a romantic dinner at a fine restaurant . except maybe a romantic dinner at home for just the two of you. So, if you really want to create some excitement in your relationship, then surprise her by ordering a romantic dinner in and have it waiting for her when she gets home. You can make it extra special by creating a restaurant theme right in your own dining room, on the patio, or in front of the fireplace. Go all out by breaking out the real plates, cloth napkins, candles, and flowers. So, learn how to set a formal table and surprise her with your impeccable taste.
What woman doesn’t like breakfast in bed ? Maybe you’ve forgotten that since it’s been a long time since you’ve treated her to one. So, get up early one Saturday Sunday morning and make her an exotic breakfast with toast, fruit, and all the fixings. When she sees you bringing it to her on the serving tray, she’ll know how much you love her. But why stop there? If you are as daring as I know you are, you may even decide to feed it to her and watch the glow in her eyes as she admires the man she married.
If she works, a nice massage may just be the thing she needs after a hard day’s work . She may even be in a bad mood when she comes in, and who could blame her? So, surprise her by offering to give her a massage. You will almost be able to see the tension melt away just from the thought. Further ease her tension by massaging her neck and back with some aromatic oils, and don’t forget about her tired and aching feet. You can even make the mood more romantic by dimming the lights and lighting some scented candles.
Buying your favorite girl some nice lingerie is a sure-fire way to re-ignite the flames of passion in your relationship. So, go down to the local department store and pick her out a nice negligée, but don’t wrap it and give it to her in a box. That would be a little cliché. Instead, lay it out on the bed for her to find when she comes home. Try to pick one in her favorite color. You should be able to remember what it is. And try not to be too gauche in your choice. Just pick something that’ll make her feel good about herself.
There are few things a woman likes better than a surprise. One way to surprise her and rekindle the fire in your relationship is to surprise her with a romantic note. It is amazing how this one little piece of paper can have such a positive effect on a woman. Of course, part of the secret it what’s in the note. The rest has to do with the thoughtfulness of the gesture. Just stick it somewhere where she can find it like on the bathroom mirror or maybe on the coffee machine. Watch the love & romance blossom back into your relationship as she recognizes the thoughtfulness of the gesture.
Like most things, relationships require management and it is up to you to keep it fresh. This may sound pretty, but women still like to be pampered, even in this day and age. So, every now and then, do something special just to let her know that you still care. It doesn’t have to be a big deal, it can be something simple like a thoughtful not, a nice dinner, a back rub, a small gift, or a romantic meal. It all goes back to that old saying that it is the thought that counts. So, just let her know that you still care.